Sunday 2 April 2017


How John reacted to the ILY Scene
 (Sherlock meta by celticmoonbeam and waytoomanyhobbies)

celticmoonbeam:

Today I’m wondering about how John reacted to the ILY scene… Who has head canons about that that they’d like to share? Last night I had fun talking through the ILY scene with a friend who interprets it totally differently. She thinks Sherlock just loves Molly platonically, and I see him loving her romantically. (And we are still friends and we enjoy talking about it and seeing the other person’s POV! As fandom stuff should go.) While I was explaining my perspective, I was surprised how much I was describing things that happened in past episodes, rather than clues about his feelings in that particular scene.

My friend was surprised too. She loves Molly Hooper, but she got it firmly in her head in season 1 that Sherlock would never be interested in Molly, and so the little Sherlolly-esque details I fixated on slipped past her completely. She viewed all their scenes in light of Sherlock having no interest in Molly. (Again, total valid reading–this post isn’t to say that she’s wrong and I am right!).

Anyway… I found myself reshaping my headcanons about John’s reaction to the ILY scene. Now I’m wondering if he would respond a lot like my friend, automatically assuming that Sherlock isn’t interested and he said “I love you” just to save her life. After all, John wasn’t around for the vast majority of their scenes together. I don’t know that he ever picked up on Sherlock’s feelings. In TLD, he calls Molly the last person Sherlock would ever think of. So what exactly does he think is going on with the phone call? And how long does it take him to realize what’s really going on with Sherlock and Molly? After all the craziness of Eurus, I doubt that would be the first thing on his mind…

waytoomanyhobbies:

When the test first ended, John and Mycroft were ready to crack on like soldiers. Realizing that Sherlock wasn’t right behind them raises alarm bells. John turns back to find his best friend ritualistically placing the lid on the coffin, staring at the “I love you”, caressing the wood, and then repeating the word “no” before destroying Molly’s coffin with his bare hands. John is visibly struck by it.

John would have seen the entirety of Sherlock’s violent outburst until Sherlock finally spent all that emotion and slumped against the wall. He saw even more than we did of Sherlock screaming and breaking everything he could until he was exhausted. John has seen Sherlock remain calm in the face of innocents murdered before. Sherlock didn’t even have a outburst like this after identifying the supposed body of Irene, despite all Sherlock’s later melancholy. The incident would have to have raised some questions, especially thinking back to Eurus’s taunts.

John has been questioning Sherlock for years about his love life and hoping for Sherlock to find a relationship. John hadn’t picked up on it before then, but John has a history of wanting Sherlock to find romance, which could lead him to wanting to meddle. When John thought Sherlock may have found a woman in the two previous instances (Irene and Janine) John was pleased and very curious. He was very recently trying again to get Sherlock to find a woman who makes him the man he wants to be. John is quite invested in helping Sherlock find that romantic entanglement that he feels would do Sherlock good.

Not to mention that John has still only recently lost Mary, so how much of Sherlock’s outburst might have struck John as familiar from what he, himself, has recently gone through? It would be very odd for him to not start thinking back and reexamining what he’d seen between them.

It’s an interesting talking point. From my point of view, if John doesn’t know he should at least suspect. He’d be raising that subject soon enough if Sherlock didn’t take initiative with Molly first. John tried to play matchmaker for Sherlock only weeks before this, and he would probably be watching them like a hawk after this.


About how Sherlock treats Molly 
 (Sherlock meta by cassbel5)

I wanted to have a look at the trope of Sherlock treating Molly badly, as I think it is one of the most unfounded yet resilient tropes in fandom and among other viewers. It is often stated or implied that he is unkind to her, manipulates her, uses her, is mean to her, thinks she is weak etc, The persistence of this trope is surprising to me because after the Christmas party scene and his astonishing apology, my deep impression was that their dynamic changes and he actually comes to treat her perhaps even with more care than he treats most people. So I wanted to take a look, once and for all, scene by scene, and investigate this impression. This is a very long post as I have listed all their scenes together by episode (after the Christmas ASiB scene), as well as references to their relationship. Also, I couldn’t help the occasional ironic comment, so forgive me for that.

So, here we go.

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A Scandal in Belgravia 

Mortuary scene (after the party). He gently tells her that she didn’t have to come in. Irene Adler is presumably lying dead on a slab before him, so he must have been experiencing considerable emotional upheaval, even if he wasn’t showing it. And yet, he takes the time and energy to say something kind to Molly, with a look of tenderness and compassion.

Lab scene. “We all do silly things”. He’s obsessing over Irene’s phone. He thinks she was killed and has left him with a puzzle. He’s not paying Molly much attention, because he is completely focused on the phone. He talks to her the way he usually talks to people when he’s focused on his work. It’s because Molly is so lovely here that we might think “Oh why doesn’t he see, the dickhead!? I agree. But context is relevant.

The Reichenbach Fall 

“You’re having lunch with me” scene. He is in a great mood and enthusiastically tells her to cancel her lunch date, jokingly (?) offering to compensate with lunch with him in the form of microscope work and crisps. OK, he’s trying to find two kidnapped kids AND Moriarty. He’s thrilled and in full “the game is on mode” and it wouldn’t surprise me if he actually thinks it must be thrilling for her too. He also amicably teases her about her ex-boyfriend criminal mastermind.

Lab scene. This is one of my all-time favourite scenes, so I am biased. But let’s see. Yes, Sherlock calls her John at one point early on. But we shouldn’t forget that while he is deep in his thoughts on a case, Sherlock, for example, habitually doesn’t notice John’s absence for days. This, however, doesn’t make us question his love and respect for John. When Sherlock calls Molly John he is in his working mode, oblivious to humans around him except as much as they pertain to the task at hand, as he sometimes is with everyone, including John. The focus of TRF is also the growing and strengthening bond between Sherlock and John, and Sherlock’s heart-breaking plan to save his friends that involves keeping John in the dark. That is why we see him watching John come into the lab but John not watching him, just unknowingly going about his business.

His curt remarks to Molly later in the conversation, after her “You’re a bit like my dad”, also have to be seen in context. He is troubled, the Reichenbach drama has already started to unfold for him and he is very much in his task-oriented “alone protects me” mode. And Molly here is crossing a very firm boundary. Now, I LOVE that she did that, this was actually the moment she definitely captured my heart. But Sherlock warning her to stop and saying that “making conversation” is really not her area, in THIS situation, doesn’t qualify as “treating her badly”. She is the strong one here, she is stepping into his walled off space, gently but with great determination, she is lovingly uncovering something, a secret he is willing to guard with his life – his own vulnerability and human frailty, his heart. She knows this, but she proceeds nevertheless. He is on the defensive and his initial curt responses are part of the toolkit he normally uses to guard this space and protect himself. It was, of course, a feeble attempt and he gives in, which brings us to.the

“You do count” scene or “Man comes to woman and reveals his utter vulnerability, as he has never revealed it to anyone before. Tells her that she has always counted to him and that he has always trusted her (and this guy’s got SERIOUS trust issues). Tells her that she was in fact right about his emotional state and that he needs her.” Right.

The Empty Hearse 

Locker room scene. Although he’s clearly got a kinky thing about hiding in her place of work to scare her a bit (I think he just loves hearing her gasp), it’s hard to see anything that is not lovely about this scene. He goes to her straight after seeing John, positions himself so that she would see him in her mirror (ah, his flair for drama) and his little smile as their eyes meet is just magic.

Baker St. “Molly, would you like to…”? A lot has been said about this scene so I’ll keep it bare and simple: Man, somewhat nervously, asks woman to go out and do fun stuff together.

Crime solving in Baker St. All the cases have to do with couples and love. I won’t go into why he has made this particular choice of clients, because that is an interesting topic in itself, but it is clearly NOT evidence of treating her badly, rather the opposite. He has made some kind of special effort for her – these are NOT the kinds of cases he normally takes.

Crime solving – dungeon scene.

Things we find out in this scene:

  1. Sherlock misses John very much. He is used to adventuring and solving crimes with John, this is probably his most favourite thing in the world. (And how poignant this is now that we know about Victor). He has come back after two very tough and lonely years and John completely cuts him off. It must be devastating. He misses him so much that he hears John’s voice in his head and at one point says “indeed John” in reply to Molly. Again, like in TRF - he is in work mode, the game is on etc. and John should be there with him in reality, but he is not, so Sherlock’s mind conjures him to make it a bit easier. It reinforces the fact that in this world of adventures, it is John and Sherlock who are a natural unit, one that Sherlock really needs. It does not mean that he does not see Molly, appreciate her or that he treats her badly. He just really misses his friend. 
  2. Molly is very smart and capable. To the extent that Sherlock’s mind (as John) suggests that Sherlock is jealous. Quite amazingly, he still lets her encroach on his territory and deduce the skeleton. Once again, quite an effort to please her and behave nicely. 
  3. Sherlock’s “Welcome to my world!” or ”You see Molly, this is further evidence of just how amazing I am.” 
  4. Sherlock and Molly finish each other’s sentences. 

Things we do NOT find out in this scene:

  1. Sherlock manipulates, uses and treats Molly badly. 

Shilcott’s flat. Well, this is just embarrassing. With all the flirting going on in this scene and that smug little smile of his, I don’t need to get into how he VERY MUCH doesn’t treat her badly. Also, she makes him apologise with a look.

Hallway scene. Ok, should we just skip this? Or should we put it briefly: Man invites woman for a meal after spending the day with her. He is clearly enjoying himself and wants to continue (again, that smug little “I am so funny, I will make her laugh again” smirk as he’s going down the stairs is priceless). Woman goes: “Ah, dude, sorry, I can’t, I’m engaged”, to which he stops and says in almost a whisper: “I hope you’ll be very happy, you deserve it” and after the SADDEST. FUCKING. LOOK., plants a gentle kiss nanometres away from her mouth. Yeah, terrible treatment. Oh wait, he actually is treating her badly because he just fucked up her engagement, right there.

Party at Baker St. He gives her a lovely smile and doesn’t say a word to or about Tom although he is evidently dismayed at Tom’s resemblance to him.

The Sign of Three 

Lab scene. He comes to ask her for help. She is clearly taking the piss throughout the scene, he is completely on the back foot. She finishes his sentence again.

Wedding – deductions. He is unusually restrained with Tom after his astounding meat dagger deduction. Sherlock is irritated beyond belief but he refrains from any scathing comments, unlike with Lestrade moments ago. He is making a big effort not to smash Molly’s fiancĂ© and embarrass her.

His Last Vow 

Lab scene. Molly slaps Sherlock hard three times and scolds him. He just stands there and lets her hit him. Finally, he attempts to deflect by bringing up the end of her engagement. It’s quite an interesting choice of topic in that moment, but the point is she has just hit him three times and scolded him in front of three other people. And this remark is all he does.

Mind palace or “I have only three seconds left of consciousness so I’ll imagine this woman being there for me, standing between me and death and telling me how to survive; I will imagine her referring to “US” and to what “WE” have to do in order for me to survive and then I will make a decision that will determine whether I live or die based on the words I imagine her saying to me because… well, that’s just what you do with people you treat badly because they are weak and mean nothing to you.”

References to their relationship. Molly tells us, and only us, that he uses her flat as a bolt hole - a fact Sherlock keeps VERY secret, as nobody, not even Mycroft, knows about this. We also find out that he likes to sleep in her bed. And that she lets him. Now, ok, you could argue that technically this qualifies as “bad”, but it’s just such a weird thing. We aren’t told that he, for instance, makes a mess of her beautiful kitchen or scratches her coffee table or watches loud TV or some other erotically uncharged but discourteous or disrespectful thing. No. We learn that HE LIKES TO SLEEP IN HER BED. AND SHE LETS HIM. With the new information on what the original script said about Tom moving OUT because they agreed he needed the space while Sherlock moves INTO HER BED because they agreed he needed the space, this just tells me that those two had some kind of weird unspoken slightly twisted kinky thing going. Bad? Yeah, ok.

The Six Thatchers 

Christening scene. He is definitely treating someone badly in this scene - his two best friends John and Mary and their daughter Rosie, as he is on the phone while Rosie is being christened. Molly whispers “Phone!” and he immediately puts it away (well, at least out of sight). He does not respond to the priest until Molly nudges him. (We could also infer that he never deletes Molly’s texts as it’s news to her that he does so at all, to John for instance). If anything, this scene, the way they are positioned, their interaction, the way she teases him about PEOPLE THINKING (with the implication that she knows better) he’s incapable of human emotion, the fact that they were talking and had to be silenced by Mrs Hudson like a couple of kids, the way she nudges him – all of this shows us that there is an intimacy between them that we may just wonder about a bit.

At the door with Rosie. Her heart is breaking for him but she can’t do anything. He is very hurt by the message she gives him, but he accepts it gracefully.

The Lying Detective 

Therapist’s house and ambulance scene. This is kind of an extended version of the HLV scene with her scolding him and him trying to deflect, but there is also something more going on here and it’s kind of weird. I’m convinced they cut something out from this scene and/or episode that would shed some more light on their interaction here but we’ll never know, so… Does asking her to come with an ambulance qualify as treating her badly/using her? Perhaps. But he does worse things to John, Lestrade, Mycroft and Mrs Hudson when he needs something for a case. I think the ambulance thing just feeds on the memory of how years and years ago he used her to get access in the mortuary and similar stuff. But the situation has changed, they are both different and they have a completely different relationship now. So if she helps him and does things for him (like Lestrade does, for instance) it does not necessarily mean he is using /manipulating her. And let’s not forget, they ALL indulge him at least a bit because he’s, well, Sherlock Holmes.

OK, the “tell me when to cough” thing was crass, but, Sherlock is very very high and a bit out of control, so…. OK. Bad.

Then there is their interaction outside the ambulance. He is being flippant, yes, but that whole interaction sounds more like a couple bickering than him being mean to her. Look at her facial expression of “Oh, you are so not fooling me with your crap” and his facial expressions seem to me like “I am going to give you my best crap…but shit, it’s not really working is it, but can’t blame me for trying’”. And that very very mysterious look he gives her as he leaves (yes, it’s for her, the camera cuts to HER face for a response) could, I suppose, qualify, as treating her badly because if it were me I would die right there.

References to their relationship in TLD:

  1. John singles Molly out as the one person who sees through Sherlock’s bullshit. Sherlock’s tone and expression as he says “Who’s that then, I’m sure I would’ve noticed”, reveals that he is unsettled by the fact that there is actually someone who fits that description. And he knows it’s true. 
  2. John also believes, much like the audience who hang onto the “Sherlock treats her badly” trope, that she is the last person Sherlock would think of in this regard. It turns out he was wrong, of course. 
  3. Molly and John are the only ones Sherlock celebrates his birthday with. In every festive occasion on the show so far, the rest of the gang (Lestrade, Mrs Hudson and Mary while she was alive) were there as well and now they are clearly not. It makes sense – Sherlock is still in a very vulnerable state, he is trying to stay clean and has been through a crushing, life-threatening and heart-breaking ordeal so it makes sense that he will celebrate his birthday with only his very closest friend who he has finally just made amends with and…and with…oh, yeah…with the woman he treats really badly because he doesn’t really care. 

The Final Problem 

“I love you” scene. Ah, let’s just not go there.

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I have tried to think of all their scenes together and scenes that deal with or mention their relationship. If I have forgotten anything it wasn’t intentional. But the point is, after the Christmas scene in ASiB, which truly was awful before his apology, you could say that the worst he does specifically to her is: call her John on two occasions when he is working and/or absent-minded and misses John; suggest she cancel a lunch date in order to help him find 2 kidnapped children; defend himself against her anger with silly flippant comebacks; ask her help with the ambulance car. Oh, yes, and sleep in her bed. (And make lewd remarks when he is high and out of control.) On the other hand, he shares his secrets with her, he lets her see his vulnerability, is compassionate and kind after hurting her, trusts her with his life more than once, seeks out her company, tries to impress her and make her laugh, tells her how much she means to him, thanks her for everything she did for him, immediately obeys instructions she gives him with her eyes or a single word, invites her for chips and eats cake with her unshaven and with a blood-clotted eye. And the hat.

(And probably quite a bit more that we don’t see if we are to judge by the intimacy we see between them.)

As the list above shows, the vast majority of their scenes together are really rather lovely. And the way BC plays it, Sherlock is always just a touch softer, just a touch more vulnerable in his scenes alone with Molly. I would really love it if people could just think back on their actual scenes together before they bring up the “he treats her badly” thing, which more or less ended half way through the fourth of thirteen episodes.


Explaining Molly as a “Mirror”
 (Sherlock meta by o0katiekins0o)

Since I’ve been asked about this specifically a number of times I thought it would be helpful to just make a post.

So “Molly is John’s mirror” is not some clever subtext that someone in the tinfoil hat brigade discovered. It is, in fact, a very old trope of the “Ms. Male” or “Distaff counterpart” that certain fans are applying here.

Basically it means taking a male character, slapping a female signifier on him, and voila! Same shit, new character.

One of the most recognizable examples is Ms. Pac Man. In order to appeal to the female market. Media Execs simply slap a lipstick and bow on whatever they happen to be making at that moment and hey! look! inclusivity! Buy our stuff, dumb ladies!

Here are some reasons why this is problematic:

1. It diminishes the female character’s role to her relationship with a male.

2. It does not leave room for dimension as this character is not her own person. She is merely a “girl version” of someone else.

3. It reduces female identity to shitty gendered signifiers (pink, frills, sparkles etc…)

Usually this goes hand in hand with the “Smurfette principle”. Where women are tokenized as the “girl” in an all-male cast. She may be a character that has other qualities but the one given highest import is that she is female in a way that remains very rigidly within the scope of the social gender binary.

This is not how Molly Hooper was written. She’s being read that way by fans who have a lot of internalized misogyny that they are projecting onto her character.

So far the only overlap I have seen is that Molly likes ugly jumpers and she’s nice.

But Molly wears ugly jumpers far more often than John, yet it’s a characteristic that belongs to him by default?

And let’s be honest, John is really not that nice. I mean sometimes kinda, but only if there’s something in it for him. (eg: getting to be the “hero”, flirting with women, looking superior to Sherlock) but apart from that, he’s just kind of a jerk who treats his non-neurotypical friend like some lovable “idiot savant”. Any one of us who met him in person would probably instantly label him as a “fuckboy” because well… the shoe fits.

Molly has a level of kindness that is completely unprecedented. Her kindness and loyalty are her trademark characteristics and I, personally think, that it’s very not good to hand that off to John just to make him seem better or to apply more validation to a fan-made narrative that actively works to erase female characters.

It’s definitely something to unpack and examine.


Molly Hooper meta
 (Sherlock meta by alltheroadsleadtotjlc)

Disclaimer: I’m not trying to disregard Molly Hooper’s character in this series. If you are a fan of Molly/Sher!0!!y, however, this meta isn’t for you as the conclusions I reach by the end of this meta may be interpreted as diminishing. I’m a TJLCer, but I tried to be as objective as possible. All operations within the meta are accurate but I chose not to include MHR and other short scenes where Molly doesn’t interact or is just in the background and her presence is not crucial (the “Sher!o!!y Kiss” and other short scenes where she’s the main focus were included). I haven’t seen any meta like this around but, if there is, I’m sorry. 

I’ll be analyzing Molly’s importance in BBC Sherlock based on every interaction she has throughout the series. For that reason, I’ve watched every single scene where Molly appears and what purpose her interactions have. I have measured each one and given a description so by the end of each season I’ll make a final remark on her relevance. Enjoy!

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SEASON 1 

This is the season where we’re first introduced to Molly Hooper and, alternatively, the season which features her the less. Her relevance, though, is unaffected. I’ll explain why.

ASIP: {8:31-9:19} Introduction to Molly Hooper. She asks Sherlock out but he “rejects” her. This will reflect the enormously different way Sherlock behaves towards Molly and towards John. 0:48 minutes.

TBB: {52:47- 54:23}. Sherlock flirts with Molly in order to examine Lukis and Van Coon’s bodies. 1:33 minutes (thanks @beejohnlocked )

TGG: {18:02-19:45} Molly introduces her boyfriend Jim to Sherlock and John, who will be revealed as Moriarty later. In the lab, Sherlock outs Jim as gay and Molly leaves angry. This is one of the few scenes where she talks during the total time she’s on screen. 1:43 minutes

Overall scenes:

Scenes where Molly talks for most of the scene:

Scenes longer than 5 minutes:

Real scenes (not MP or things someone else thinks happened):

Scenes where Molly talks to Sherlock for most of the time she’s there:

● Of those, real ones:

Total amount of time she’s on the season: 5:04 minutes 

Percentage of appearance in this season: 1.86% 

This was obviously the easiest season to analyze and I want to make clear why I believe she’s important in both scenes. First, her introduction scene reinforces the idea of Sherlock being gay and socially awkward right at the beginning of the show. Her second one introduces Moriarty, a major arc for s2 and s3. Unfortunately, I don’t have enough footage to properly describe Molly Hooper’s character in this season. Reading her blog we can deduce she’s a shy, sensible, hopeless romantic person with a big crush on Sherlock.

SEASON 2 

In this season, Molly Hooper’s character will reach a turning point in her growth and will be properly established as a John mirror.

ASIB: {41:39- 44:22} Christmas party on Baker St. This is one of the longest scenes where Molly’s in. It’s made clear the nature of Molly’s feelings for Sherlock and he apologizes for being rude making deductions about her. 2:43 minutes.

{45:30- 46:10} Very short interaction with Sherlock and Mycroft on the morgue to see Irene Adler’s body. She’s puzzled when Sherlock is able to identify her by looking at her naked body, as everyone else except John. 1:20 minutes.

{1:02:23- 1:03:09} Molly briefly inquires about the owner of the mobile phone Sherlock is scanning. She assumes it’s Sherlock’s girlfriend’s phone, which Sherlock is quick to remark in its absurdity. 1:26 minutes.

THOB: NO INTERACTION WHATSOEVER.

TRF: {35:58- 39:04} This is the famous “you look sad when you think he can’t see you” conversation Molly and Sherlock have. One of the major scenes Molly has throughout the entirety of these series. Oddly enough, she talks about John and Sherlock’s relationship and her words have a deeper meaning than we’re to believe. I think this is a turning point for Sherlock and Molly’s relationship because he trusts her more now (we have more proof of this fact later on). 3:46 minutes

{1:02:11- 1:03:09} Here Sherlock asks for Molly’s help to fake his death. Her blind trust in Sherlock can be compared to John’s when they are about to arrest Sherlock at 221b. This task solidifies their relationship. Honestly, if the previous scene never happened, this conversation wouldn’t have either. 0:58 minutes.

In this season, she experiments an evolution around TRF mainly, which brings her more strength as a character and makes her more likable. By this point I believe the writers realised they could (and did) use Molly Hooper specifically as a plot device. Her character was literally meant to be rejected by Sherlock at the beginning of ASIP and that’s it (no offense) [1], and right now her biggest scenes suggest Moftiss is trying to tell us something. It’s worth considering. Aside from that, she’s still more of a background character.

Overall scenes:

Scenes where Molly talks for most of the scene:

Scenes longer than 5 minutes:

Real scenes:

Scenes where Molly talks to Sherlock for most of the time she’s there:

● Of those, real ones:

Total amount of time she’s on this season: 9:33 minutes 

Percentage: 3.45% 

SEASON 3 

This season, by far, is the one where Molly Hooper’s character is more featured; in fact, 73% of the scenes she has on the show are within this season alone (mainly in TEH).

TEH: {1:29- 2:04} The infamous Sher!0!!y kiss. It’s product of Anderson’s imagination but I can’t be biased so here it is. 0:35 minutes.

{27:06- 27:24} Molly doesn’t talk: Sherlock goes to Bart’s in order to let her know he has come back to London. 0:18 minutes.

{37:54- 38:06} Sherlock asks Molly to accompany him on his cases while she misinterprets the situation and thinks he’s going to ask her out, establishing the cases=dates parallel. 0:12 minutes.

{38:14- 38:40} Sherlock solves cases at 221b while Molly takes notes. She doesn’t talk much, and is usually quiet when clients explain their cases, contrary to John. 0:26 minutes.

{38:51- 39:16} Same as before. 0:25 minutes.

{40:34- 41:46} Lestrade, Sherlock and Molly go together to solve a case. Molly helps Sherlock by examining the body and taking notes. 1:12 minutes.

{42:02- 46:10} Sherlock deduces everything about the skeleton while having auditory hallucinations and leaves. Molly is not of much importance here, although this is the longest scene in the whole series where Molly’s in. 4:08 minutes.

{47:17- 49:15} A very relevant scene for Molly; Sherlock explains to her why he has brought her, congratulates her on her engagement and leaves but Molly is not over him, much like John. 2:38 minutes.

{49:28- 49:34} Small appearance of Molly watching Sherlock leave, same as John at the end of TEH. 0:06 minutes.

{1:22:08- 1:22:51} Molly goes to 221b and introduces Tom to Lestrade, Sherlock, John, Mary and Mrs. Hudson. Everyone quickly notices Tom looks exactly like Sherlock. 0:43 minutes.

TSOT: {17:58- 18:37} She talks to Lestrade and Mrs. Hudson about Sherlock’s speech in the wedding, worried about how he will handle it. 0:39 minutes.

{42:00-42:27} She doesn’t talk but stabs Tom’s hand with a fork. 0:27 minutes

{43:33- 44:33} Sherlock asks Molly to help him with the stag night. 1:00 minute.

HVL: {11:58- 14:17} Molly slaps Sherlock thrice when she discovers Sherlock has used drugs again, her anger mirroring John’s but her actions suggesting otherwise. 2:19 minutes.

{34:43- 35:40} MP!Molly helps Sherlock after Mary shoots him. 0:57 minutes.

{36:20- 36:38} “ “ “ “. 0:18 minutes.

{36:58- 37:03} “ “ “ “. 0:05 minutes.

{45:54- 46:05} “ “ “ “. 0:11 minutes.

{45:54- 46:01} Molly talks about some arrangement she has with Sherlock. 0:07 minutes.

Overall scenes: 19 

Scenes longer than 5 minutes:

Real scenes: 14 

Scenes where Molly talks to Sherlock for most of the time she’s there:

● Of those, real ones:

Amount of time she appears on this season: 14:06 minutes 

Percentage: 5.20% 

Amount of real time she appears on this season: 13:20 minutes 

Percentage: 4.88% 

Molly’s presence on this season cannot be overlooked. As John is not with Sherlock all the time, Molly is our window into Sherlock’s world for a while. However, this doesn’t last for long. She has earned Sherlock’s respect and that’s something.

SEASON 4 

As [this was written before] season 4 [...] aired, I can’t make a proper approach of Molly throughout the season, so I will only talk of [TAB] in terms of time on-screen.

TAB: {17:55- 19:14} Hooper, disguised as a man, explains the details of Emilia Ricolletti’s case in a professional fashion. She and Holmes don’t get on, apparently (as the last real interaction with Molly is the one where she slaps him, it’s not a big leap to assume Sherlock imagines her angry with him, as in the fake scene on the plane, this time with John). 1:19 minutes.

{19:48- 21:36} Molly finishes explaining the case to Holmes. When he leaves later, Molly sasses Watson and he subtly outs her as what she really is: a woman. 1:48 minutes.

{1:12:36- 1:13:14} She starts explaining the Emilia Ricolletti’s case to Holmes in the crypt, already been revealed as a part of the conspiracy. 0:38 minutes.

Overall scenes:

Scenes where Molly talks for most of the time:

● Of those, real ones:

Total amount of time she’s on the episode: 3.05 minutes 

Percentage: 3.39% 

She doesn’t have much on-screen time (same as s1) but it’s pretty obvious Sherlock deeply respects her abilities as a pathologist, so much that she even makes it to his drug-induced dream (or MP, whatever you think TAB was). He also thinks he has treated her badly in the past and regrets it.

And, with this episode, the final data.

MOLLY HOOPER

Amount of total time she’s on the show: 28:49 minutes 

Percentage: 3.16% 

Overall scenes: 30 

● Real scenes: 22 

● Where Molly talks at least half the time she’s there: 10 

○ Of those, scenes where she didn’t mirror John in some way| talked about John:

Jim introduction (TGG) 

■ Christmas party 221b (ASIB) 

■ Flashback of Molly talking about Sherlock’s speech (TSOT) 

In conclusion, Molly Hooper’s character is clearly a plot device in every sense and, judging by the on-screen time she has had over 6 years, should be considered as a secondary character [...]. Studying her in depth has been very fun to do and I realised how interesting she is from this perspective. I’d say this is the most flattering way to depict her. Not seeing this part of her character is a great mistake.

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Saturday 1 April 2017


Series 4 and The John Problem 
 (Sherlock meta by mild-lunacy)

[...] Previously, we had thought that John was going to have to have an arc that was resolved in Series 4, in part because of the arc framework we had of the whole narrative, and in part because Sherlock changed in Series 3 and John kinda regressed, at least in his relationship to Sherlock. Specifically, we expected some movement, and ideally a resolution or major development of John’s sexuality. So, all that… did not really happen. If it did, it did not happen the way we expected. In my opinion, before casting judgment, this means one has to reevaluate one’s analysis to some degree, and this is my attempt at a start of that process.

My initial impressions of the first two episodes were that John’s response to Mary’s death was closer to rage than grief. I still think comparing it to Reichenbach too closely (let alone with the implication that Mary’s death had more of an impact, since he didn’t hallucinate Sherlock as far as we know) seems counterproductive. Further, I thought that this was John’s belief that Sherlock’s superhuman coming to bite him and Sherlock on the ass, big-time. It seems completely irrational because it was completely irrational, as he implicitly acknowledged by telling Sherlock Mary’s death wasn’t his fault in The Lying Detective. In any case, clearly John always thinks Sherlock can ‘solve it’ and/or is the master of any situation, or at least that’s the attitude he normally develops under stress. See: The Sign of Three and his demand that Sherlock just ‘solve it’. And, of course, John’s guilt over his behavior toward Mary is no minor factor.

John was also kinda drifting further away from Sherlock in The Six Thatchers, which is what I thought when Sherlock chose Mary as the better or more useful partner early on in the episode. Sure, that’s correct on the merits, but it’s not suggesting any sort of understanding or valuing of their dynamic as partners and/or John’s value (to John, anyway). At no point in The Six Thatchers does Sherlock directly demonstrate to John he values and trusts him, even though you could argue everything he does is for John. This is a continuation of the issue he had in His Last Vow (where he continued to help Mary because of John, or even instead of John). So John clearly felt pretty alone and even isolated.

As I said, I liked how subtly the infidelity and John’s continuing unhappy life with Mary was handled: it continued the tendencies we saw in His Last Vow and developed them by having John have the emotional affair with Eurus (yikes!), though it’s unclear how much of that was manipulated. Of course, he still chose to follow up, so clearly it’s a sign that John continued to feel trapped. The ‘Antichrist Rosie’ conversation in The Six Thatchers did show a certain ease and some bantery dynamic with Mary, but the intimacy was a sham, since he just started texting and flirting with someone else right after. However, we do see that the surface His Last Vow narrative was more or less intact. There was no ‘secret plan’ to deceive Mary, and John really did his best to follow through on Sherlock’s insistence that he forgive Mary. (This doesn’t mean that there’s no subtext, by the way, just that they don’t make a habit of returning to and/or redoing the plot of previous episodes.) As of the beginning of The Six Thatchers, it seems that John was, just barely, coping with his new role as a husband and father, but not very well. However, he blames himself and (by extension) Sherlock, rather than Mary or perhaps the situation he’s (partly manipulated to be) in.

Anyway, as I’ve said, given that John believes that it’s his and particularly Sherlock’s fault for allowing Mary to die, his complete (semi-psychotic?) mental break in The Lying Detective makes sense. We never do get an explanation, so we’re left with John’s Mary hallucination being apparently unrelated to the other hallucinations and/or unusual mental phenomena in The Lying Detective. I have to run with the assumption that it’s more or less a contrast or mirror plotline than something causally related to Eurus or Culverton Smith. Since there’s no ‘plot thing’ to mitigate this as I had initially supposed, it’s just that John is struggling with seeing himself (and Sherlock) as monstrous. There’s definitely some projection going on, if you go by the last conversation in The Lying Detective, where John talks of Mary idealizing him. Anyway, he definitely has Sherlock’s Otherness on his mind (Sherlock as a ‘monster’ tying in with the ‘superhuman’ thing). Sherlock’s a monster, but his Mary avatar says it’s ‘our’ monster (in other words, John’s initially repressing the idea that Sherlock’s his monster).

My thought process was that clearly John doesn’t think he’s Mary’s John (as he tells Sherlock), but he’s also not Sherlock’s John. And we see that quite clearly: he acts quite differently and/or ‘OOC’. He’s not acting like our John, because he doesn’t see himself that way. John’s having a significant identity crisis as well as a crisis of faith in The Lying Detective, essentially. Faith in himself as well as faith in Sherlock, as these two seem to be connected. We know that Sherlock knows him– he predicted John’s behavior 2 weeks out! he demonstrably knows him much better than Mary– but then, from John’s pov, Sherlock’s just that good. He could do that with anyone. Yes, it’s surprising, but it’s not really proof he’s known by Sherlock to John. Certainly, it doesn’t go both ways at that point.

As I said in my review of The Final Problem, S4 has John moving toward his own version of Sherlock’s claim that he’s ‘not a saint, not a hero’ in His Last Vow. Obviously, John’s not even pretending to be a ‘high-functioning sociopath’, which is probably (in part) why people would say this is somehow character assassination and/or OOC for John. However, in The Lying Detective, John was focusing on Mary’s idealization of him, much like the sociopath persona is Sherlock’s idealization of himself, more or less. These personas (both of Sherlock and of himself) were haunting him– sort of literally, given Mary’s hallucination. John being haunted is perhaps a better description of what was going on than John having a ‘semi-psychotic break’, since there were no other symptoms of an altered mental state except for being a lot more stressed (and angry– at Sherlock, at himself). You can take ‘haunted’ as a metaphor that is being made literal: John is haunted by unresolved issues, more than he ever had been. We’ve heard before that he’s ‘haunted’ by the war (because he misses it). And now he’s literally haunted by all the things he can’t accept about himself, about Mary and about Sherlock, which helps explain why Mary tends to say stuff about Sherlock that John denies or won’t admit. One benefit of this reading is that the Mary hallucination isn’t automatically a sign John cared more in some absolute sense about Mary’s death than he had about Sherlock’s. The fact is, John simply– literally!– cannot be with Sherlock anymore as long as he has these mental blocks and idealizations in place.

So anyway, apparently Mary predicted John’s mental state after her death, and told Sherlock to ‘go to hell’ so that John could rescue him. In retrospect, her claim in His Last Vow that John can’t know that she’s lied because that would “break” him and she’d “lose him forever” wasn’t simply self-serving bullshit as many people have thought. In other words, it always pays to pay attention to surface narrative, or it bites you on the ass. It was still primarily selfish, but Mary’s power over John (born of manipulation as it may be) is real. Regardless, it’s clear that Mary’s solution for John’s predictable issues was a further sign of her not understanding John. I was struggling with this initially– isn’t it a given that they rescue each other, save each other, as Sherlock said in his wedding speech in The Sign of Three? If the show is making us question this, surely something is wrong, and we cannot take the ep at face value. But no, we’re supposed to question this, I think, at least insofar as assuming John’s always ‘the hero’ is also more idealizing John, which John says outright that Mary’s always done. So, Mary’s theory that John needs to save Sherlock was born of that idealization, even though (of course) in the end John did rush to save Sherlock in the hospital.

Of course, this brings us to the extremity of John’s violence in the morgue, which people have apparently flagged as OOC. Initially, as in my post on Johnlock in S4, this hadn’t really struck me as starkly as it did others. My John has never been super-fluffy, and as I said, I agree with @thecutteralicia’s point that this is consistent with John’s adrenaline-driven desire to keep hitting Sherlock after the one time in ASiB (and in TLD, he’s obviously under a lot more stress, as well). For many people, it seems that John’s physical assault is a dealbreaker for Johnlock (given that no plot-based or other extenuating circumstances appear). That’s fine: that’s always the viewer’s prerogative. For me, it’s enough that I see the characterization as being consistent and a believable progression from past behavior, and I believe this fits that criteria.

It may seem like more of a (temporary) regression, of course. This hasn’t been unusual so far in the show– in fact, we’ve had multiple regressions coupled with any progress for the characters (The Hounds of Baskerville regressing after A Scandal in Belgravia, His Last Vow regressing after The Sign of Three, etc). However, here we come back to the issue of John’s arc (or the lack thereof). In retrospect, I agree with @birdymary that Series 4 confirms that BBC Sherlock has primarily been concerned with an arc for Sherlock Holmes, showing his progression from ‘great man’ in A Study in Pink to a ‘good man’ in The Final Problem, as proclaimed by Lestrade, and it should be judged on those merits. Sherlock’s journey to forgiveness has often been seen as having gone too far (as in, he forgives too much, is too self-sacrificing, has too much of a ’heart’, even), but I think those concerns all ignore the whole point (and existence) of the humanization arc in the first place. John, on the other hand, does not have an arc so much as character development. That is, his characterization involves periods of growth and regression, but it is not formally structured as an arc. The Johnlock arc does still exist even in S4, in my opinion, and it remains tied to John– but it is an indirect thing, largely tied to the subtext and interstitial places in the narrative. John’s growth and his relationship to and with Sherlock still drives the story but isn’t the primary focus. Further, in my current analysis, that joint growth in John’s characterization and in Johnlock culminates in The Lying Detective, rather than the final episode of Series 4. I believe this fits in with the expected point for the climax as suggested by the arc meta narrative, but I’m not sure and would appreciate further input on this point.

To reiterate, the lack of an explicit arc for John is due to the primary focus being on Sherlock’s growth, and his adventures with John as his partner, as Mary’s narration and/or the framing monologue at the end of The Final Problem tells us. John’s own development– being tied to the subtext– is thus also shown indirectly.

Initially, my main problem with The Lying Detective was that the purpose of John and Sherlock’s conversation at the end was unclear to me. It seemed vaguely like hetero-baiting. After all, John pushes Sherlock to pursue a romance (with Irene) and insists on its importance. John’s role in the show has often been to be the voice in support of human (including romantic) feeling, which is one reason for the tie between John and Johnlock in the narrative. Anyway, my conclusion so far has been suggested by Ivy’s reading of the gap between The Lying Detective and The Final Problem: that Moffat and Gatiss intended the viewers to fill in the blanks, and for the act of understanding the narrative to be highly collaborative. Thus, I’ve said in my Johnlock-focused meta that I feel that the The Lying Detective conversation was meant to be suggestive of the kind of subjects John and Sherlock covered, and the kind of emotional release and resolution that’s suggested by John finally crying, Sherlock finally hugging him, and so on. John admitted, painfully, that he wasn’t perfect, and he was haunted by Mary’s idealization and her putting him on a pedestal. By his final acquiescence to Sherlock’s gentle touch, John accepted that both he and Sherlock were only human, and he saw that Sherlock accepted that as well: “it is what it is”. In the end, that was all that John needed to start to resolve the main issue he was struggling with.

My initial read of the last scene of The Lying Detective was that John was ‘still breaking’ and needed to be saved; I presumed that this would somehow be the focus of The Final Probelem. Instead, The Final Problem resolved Sherlock’s arc, with both John and Johnlock being resolved in The Lying Detective. Basically, I’m leaning toward the idea that John was firmly on the road to healing both himself and his relationship to Sherlock as of their final conversation in The Lying Detective. 

I agree with @ivyblossom‘s interpretation in that they’ve clearly turned a corner in The Lying Detective (as indirectly evidenced by The Final Problem), mostly due to John’s development. That is, yeah, it doesn’t have to be seen as a corner turned in a romantic direction, but there are multiple cues in The Final Problem that it has been. I find John’s calm response to Sherlock’s calling him ‘family’ and Mary saying they ‘could become’ something more than they are, as well as his unusual use of casual touch at Sherrinford to be particularly telling. One can certainly argue about whether this is ‘enough’ or good representation, as I’ve said, but that’s beside the point when evaluating the best reading that would fit and explain all the facts, as presented in the narrative. Basically, what I’m saying is that a newly romantic relationship between John and Sherlock does best fit and explain all the facts, particularly what Ivy called the ‘rifle on the wall’ presented by Sherlock and John explicitly being stated as needing a romantic connection at the end of The Lying Detective. The rest of it is left for the viewer to figure out, but I believe it’s mainly heteronormativity preventing that. Otherwise, that’s the main obstacle to John and Sherlock’s relationship (implicitly) resolved.

[...] It is not within the scope of this meta to critique the way that all this was portrayed and accomplished, so much as to outline my reading of John’s characterization and his progression in Series 4. It’s indisputable that a critique can always be made, and further, that it certainly already has been and will be made by enough people that I need not weigh in on the subject. I’m left with an increased appreciation and an ongoing interest in the subtlety and the nuanced nature of John’s growth in Series 4. I would be thrilled to see fandom explore this further, but I am also satisfied with the canon as it stands.


Sherlock is actually a girl’s name.
 (Sherlock meta by notagarroter)

Can we talk about this moment a bit? I mean, really? I just finished watching my way through the entire series for the umpteenth time (really fifth, I think), and every time this scene makes me a little angrier.


I know the usual fandom reading. Everyone focuses on the previous line, “John, there’s something … I should say; I-I’ve meant to say always and then never have. Since it’s unlikely we’ll ever meet again, I might as well say it now.”

And they get their hopes up in whatever way suits them. I love you, I yearn for you, you complete me, you had me at “here, use mine.” Whatever they are picturing, it is not “Sherlock is actually a girl’s name." And so that statement is read as a joke and as a disappointment. And all the focus is on what Sherlock really meant to say.

Here’s the thing: I don’t think it’s a joke. And that makes this scene so much more heartbreaking for me.

In some sense, of course it’s a bit of a joke. But it’s not one Sherlock’s been planning for ages. It’s a response to what John said only moments earlier.

SHERLOCK: William Sherlock Scott Holmes.
JOHN: Sorry?
SHERLOCK: That’s the whole of it – if you’re looking for baby names.
(John chuckles.)
JOHN: No, we’ve had a scan. We’re pretty sure it’s a girl. (x)

Sherlock asked John to name his baby after him. And John said no, on an extremely flimsy excuse. So Sherlock asked again. And John laughed.

I don’t want to know what Sherlock "really” meant to say. I want to know, what was so damn funny about Sherlock’s request?

Of course we, the audience, know that Sherlock’s exile will only last five minutes, and he and John will be reunited shortly. But Sherlock doesn’t know that. Sherlock believes he is being sent to his certain death. And even if John doesn’t know that, Sherlock explicitly tells him “it’s unlikely we’ll ever meet again." Doesn’t that mean anything to John?

Sherlock has no children, and (there’s reason to believe) he never will. John is supposed to be the closest person in the world to him, and he has a baby on the way. Would it kill him to name this child after the most important man in his life? The man who sacrificed everything – up to and including his very life – to protect John, his wife, and his child?

Surely everyone knows that the gender argument is bullshit. My sister Karen was named for my mother’s uncle Charlie, who died in WWII. This happens ALL THE TIME. Especially after a war, many girl babies are named for recently deceased male loved ones, to honor their memory. Usually they are given feminine versions of the name – Georgina, Patricia, Josephine – but it’s not unheard of for parents to just flat out give a girl a traditionally male name, for rememberance.

And that’s not even to mention how many traditional boys’ names have been used for girls just out of fashion or whim. Paris, Dylan, Ashley. Nor to mention that "Sherlock”, being extravagantly rare as a name for any human, can’t seriously be said to have a strongly gendered association.

And then there’s Sheryl, Sherla, Sherleen, etc. if you insist on being REALLY gendered about it. Or take William and do the traditional Wilhelmina. There were LOTS of options.

Why won’t John give Sherlock this one thing? Forget the passionate kisses and grandiose declarations of undying love. This is what Sherlock asked for, and there’s every reason to believe it would mean a great deal to him. To be remembered, in a significant way, by the person he cares about the most. To have a small piece of him passed down to the next generation.

Goddammit, John. What’s the matter with you? Why won’t you name your daughter Sherlock?

I can’t even wrap my head around how wounded Sherlock must be that John laughs off his suggestion.


Naming the baby
 (Sherlock meta by notagarroter)

Q: Mary told John she gets to name their baby. Maybe he already suggested Sherlock and Mary vetoed it? That's why he's trying to play it off?

A: I assume this is a response to my earlier meta, Sherlock Is Actually a Girl’s Name.

What you suggest is possible, but… I don’t see any evidence for it on the show. Why would Mary veto the name? And why wouldn’t John just tell Sherlock that, if it were the case? It’s not that I can’t imagine plausible answers to these questions, it’s just that they aren’t in the show – it would be pure speculation.

It’s true that there is a scene in this very episode where John asks Mary for naming rights to the baby and is denied. So it’s not unreasonable to point to this as an explanation for why John laughs off Sherlock’s proposal in the tarmac scene – maybe John has no say in naming the baby.

But let’s look again at the dialogue between John and Mary.

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JOHN: I choose the baby’s name.
MARY: Not a chance.
JOHN: Okay.

I’d say there’s more than one possible interpretation of this exchange. (Please indulge me in a bit of sarcastic hyperbole here.) Some fans read John’s line to mean, “I want a fair and equal part in raising our child,” and they read Mary’s response to John as meaning, “I hate you and am basically evil, and am therefore denying you any parental role at all. Also btw the baby isn’t yours, and I’m probably not even human, but an odious abomination released from the depths of hell for the sole purpose of thwarting pure, true, holy love such as that between you and Sherlock.” :P

There is another possible reading, however. Given the context of their relationship, and assuming neither person is angel or demon, but are complex, imperfect humans, we might conclude that what John means is, “I’m still really angry about your deception, so as payback, I’m demanding the right to name our child without consulting you at all, because I know that will hurt you.”

To which Mary quite reasonably responds, “Not a chance, we will name the baby together, and we both retain veto-rights over truly objectionable names. Your anger is fair, but it’s no reason to let our kid go through life with a name like Horsefeathers McMonkey just to spite me.” And John agrees to this.

If we assume the second scenario is more likely than the first, then the polite, grown-up response to Sherlock would have been, “I’ll talk to Mary about it.” Of course John shouldn’t unilaterally decide on a name without discussing it with the kid’s mother, but Sherlock wasn’t demanding a yes or no on the spot – he was just offering his name up as a suggestion. And given the precise situation (Sherlock sacrificing his freedom and possibly his life for their well-being), it seems likely to me that Mary would have agreed.

As it happens, I don’t believe Mary is the reason for John’s refusal to name the baby after Sherlock. I’m more inclined to believe (as many have suggested) that John simply isn’t comfortable with the larger implications, i.e. that Sherlock isn’t coming back (supposedly). It’s an emotionally-charged situation, and John isn’t handling it well. He is giggling and joking and relying on humor to get him through a difficult conversation, just as he did at the scene of his own murder. Sherlock, for his part, knows that’s all John is capable of at the moment, so he’s playing along with it.

Also it’s worth noting that Sherlock’s line (“That’s the whole of it, if you’re looking for baby names”) is a clear call-back to ASiB, when John offers up his whole name as a sardonic commentary on Sherlock and Irene’s flirting. Since the original line was a joke (albeit with an emotionally-charged undercurrent), it’s not surprising that John assumes Sherlock also intends the same line in a joking way. And I think Sherlock sort of does intend John to read it that way – he’s deliberately trying to keep the conversation light, and avoiding the kind of sentimentality that would make both of them uncomfortable.

But he’s not cracking just *any* joke. It’s my contention that Sherlock intends a serious undercurrent to his little joke – he brings up the baby names lightly, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t sincerely important to him. My best guess is that, however John reacts in the moment, Sherlock hopes that in a couple of weeks, when the baby is born and Sherlock has disappeared, John will think back on this conversation and reconsider whether he might want to honor his friend in this way.

[...]


Sherlolly in The Sign of Three
 (Sherlock meta by ladylillianrose)

Okay let’s discuss the various Sherlolly things in The Sign of Three shall we? [...]

Firstly, Archie. Yes, yes I know not technically Sherlolly, but come on. You can’t tell me he’s similar to what a child of Molly and Sherlock would be like. Stubborn, curly haired, interested in murder, totally could be their child. And he causes Sherlock to sort of look at children differently, his little “hmm” when Archie comments on the maggots in the eyes being cool. Almost as though he’s thinking, you know kids aren’t that terrible when they’re not screaming or misbehaving. AND he technically solved the murder!

Then there’s the weird photograph moment with Tom and Molly. Molly is clearly attempting to give him a proper kiss, he is her fiance and they are at a wedding. But Tom seems reluctant and more focused on the photographer taking their picture. Wedding photographers (even the murderous ones) like to take a variety of photos, so an engaged couple who are friends with the bride and groom, kissing would be a sweet photograph. It just bothers me that Tom seems to almost be pushing her away.

And then of course there’s Sherlock in the background keeping an eye on his pathologist. Thought we didn’t see you there did you?

The Speech/Telegrams. Molly seems to be the only one genuinely concerned about Sherlock having to give the speech to a roomful of people. She knows that it’s completely different from when he deduces people, deals with the press, etc. This speech requires sentiment and emotions, which while he’s gotten better about them over the years, are still not terribly easy for him to express. And certainly not to a large group of people about his best friend. Both Lestrade and Mrs. Hudson believe he’ll be fine because they’re assuming it will be just like when he’s explaining about a case. He’ll ramble on, but have no issue delivering it to a room full of people because he’s a show off. But this is far more personal, and Molly understands that. Which is of course why she’s so concerned. And of course the telegrams will be full of sentimental messages, which she knows he’ll have trouble dealing with the wording of them (full of sentiment and nicknames, etc.).

And on the subject of her phoning Mrs. Hudson, she’s calling from work, her goggles specked with blood, in the middle of something (she still has one glove on and a tool in her hand) to discuss Sherlock and his role in the wedding. And then we of course see John talking to Sherlock about his role in the wedding, and what’s Sherlock doing? Experimenting with a blowtorch and a human eyeball. Please try and tell me they aren’t beyond fucking perfect for each other.

Then there’s the looks she keeps giving him throughout his speech. She’s smiling, biting her lips and fiddling with her engagement ring, all while looking at Sherlock and sitting a decent distance from Tom. She’s sitting closer to Lestrade than she is to Tom, which is incredibly unusual to be doing at a wedding when sitting with one’s significant other (unless you’ve had an argument or something, and this position is prior to Tom being a complete and utter idiot!).

Her face when he asks Lestrade about the murder, is priceless. She’s just trying to keep from laughing out loud because she knows Sherlock is teasing him and that Lestrade has given a ridiculous answer. And then Tom opens his mouth. The look on Sherlock’s face is one of polite behavior, almost as though he’s telling himself internally, “Be nice for Molly’s sake.” The minute he says anything Molly looks like she’s about to kill him. Firstly if Lestrade couldn’t come up with a decent answer she knows Tom’s answer is just going to be worse. And then he stands up awkwardly, so of course everyone sees and hears him, and gives his “meat dagger” theory. Which again has Sherlock refraining from making any comment apart from repeating “meat dagger” in a questioning tone and no. And poor Molly looks like if he weren’t standing she’d be giving him a swift kick to the leg. Her “sit down!” is totally in the tone of, “you’ve completely embarrassed yourself and me, so shut up and sit down.” Because we all know she’s an intelligent woman, so one would hope that she would find an equally intelligent significant other, which Tom is clearly not.

Then he goes to see her about the stag night. She thinks the murder scenes theme is odd, but then when she see’s what he means with the personal touch, she genuinely says “delightful.” She speaks/understands Sherlockease, so she gets that it’s meant to be a sentimental gesture. Hell if it weren’t a stag night Molly would probably be up for a pub crawl along the same theme. His coming to her about the “practical experience” is of course rubbish. She points out that he’s a graduate chemist, and we know he’s had a history with drugs (so of course he knows how substances and body chemistry work), so there’s no reason for him to come to a Pathologist for this data. And then when he fumbles about with Molly’s teasing (which I love that she’s able to do that with him) and then realizes that she’s teasing him he gets flustered. “You look….well,” was of course not what he was going to say. In the past he’d have complimented her in order to get his way, but he won’t do that to her anymore because she counts. And then there’s him actually making an effort to remember Tom’s correct name!!!! The man can’t remember Lestrade’s first name, and though it takes him a minute he remembers Molly’s fiance’s name because it’s Molly and it’s important to her. The not a sociopath comment is of course great, and I think people are misconstruing Molly’s comment of, “and we’re having quite a lot of sex.” It perplexes Sherlock, but it’s a connecting thought to the "not a sociopath", because Jim was a GAY sociopath. So she’s merely running with that theme. It’s just my theory, to be fair, but that was my first thought, Tom’s still not a sociopath, and she’s established that he’s heterosexual.

Then there’s when Sherlock realizes the Mayfly man is there. He says he’s come up with ways to kill friends and colleagues, and while he doesn’t mention Mrs. Hudson (because she’s like a second mom to him) he also doesn’t mention Molly either. Probably because he knows from first hand experience how Molly is capable of helping him fake his suicide so hiding a body or making a murder look like an accident would be simple for her. I see it as a compliment to her abilities and how highly he esteems them.

And Tom of course has to go and open his big mouth again, assuming Sherlock’s drunk. But apart from John, Mary (whom John told), and Lestrade (who had to be told by text), Molly is the only other one who gets that something related to the murderer is happening. Which of course is why she stabs Tom with her dessert fork, not even looking at him in regret (she doesn’t take her eyes off of Sherlock).

And finally there’s the reception. Molly doesn’t take her eyes from him the entire time he’s playing his violin, she’s in a spot close to the stage specifically for the best view of course. Then after he finishes his piece he tosses his boutonniere to Jeannine with Molly standing right next to her. She pulls a face, not the face of a woman who has a wonderful fiance (who she is standing far away from).

When Sherlock leaves, looking sad, as we’ve all of course pointed out the comparisons. Molly is of course the only one who sees. And you can see her struggling with whether or not to follow him outside (and oh how I wish she had!) but I think she reminds herself that she’s engaged, and continues dancing with Tom, almost sort of settling. She’d rather run after Sherlock and throw her arms around him, but she’s a good person and doesn’t want to hurt Tom and has decided to settle for less than what she deserves (not saying she doesn’t deserve to be happy, but come on we all know she is obviously not happy with Tom).

[...]


Sherlock and The Social Dots
 (Sherlock meta by bassfanimation)

I keep seeing people continue to fight over Sherlock and the meaning of Eurus’ tests so I wanted to write a little thing on it. I’m doing this with a wrist brace on and heinous fibro-turd pain, so forgive any misspellings.

The way I have personally absorbed Sherlock and the meaning of Eurus’s tests is that it’s about Sherlock as an empty person. He is an incomplete picture until he begins connecting the dots that are his social connections and even more importantly, his emotions. Let’s look at his relationships one by one and I’ll explain.

Dot 1: Greg Lestrade 


Lestrade represents respect for authority. In fact, he is the only real authority figure in the series. He’s Sherlock’s ‘boss’ in a way. Bosses need people they employ to be reliable, respectful, and trustworthy. Sherlock treating his boss/mentor like crap, making fun of his intelligence and skirting around him at every chance he gets is terribly disrespectful. Sherlock is childish and arrogant and disregards Lestrade in most cases, even refusing to acknowledge his name. We’ve all had those bosses when we were young that we didn’t respect, so we act like spoiled brats about it even though those people probably have way more experience than we do. They have earned their position via the rout of hard work and being reliable and respectful. By the end of the series, however, Sherlock shows us he has resolved the issue of his respect for Lestrade by politely asking him, by name, a first for the entire series, to please take care of his brother. Sherlock is no longer a bratty child and he has connected the social dot of respect.

Dot 2: John Watson 


John represents friendship, pure and simple. John is literally the “replacement” for Victor, Sherlock’s best friend who was killed when he was very, very little. That left Sherlock as the empty shell that we see at the start of the series. The loss of his friend at such a young age meant that he essentially shut down the part of him that he felt could even have friends. He rejected the idea of personal connections with other people entirely, so that he wouldn’t suffer loss again. John, through all their trials and tragedies, has now healed that wound for Sherlock. Even more, John as Sherlock’s friend, has helped him connect all the other dots. He walked with him step by step to do it. Without John’s companionship, Sherlock would still be empty. John’s maturity helped Sherlock grow up and be the man he was supposed to be, had he not suffered such a terribly traumatic event in his youth.

One other thing John represents is family, brotherhood to be specific. Mycroft was very cold to Sherlock in their youth, even though it’s obvious it wasn’t always that way. In the family videos we are shown, Sherlock absolutely loves his brother. It isn’t until later, after Victor, that he feels so alone. It’s obvious Sherlock loved Victor just like a brother, like the brother he really needed but was taken from him. Sherlock says John is “family” in The Final Problem, and he means it. It also shows just how much emotion Sherlock has. His love is that strong. His friend was his brother, a part of his own blood, even if they wren’t born as brothers.

Dot 3: Mrs. Hudson 

Mrs Hudson represents a parent’s love. It’s clear that Sherlock has a very strained relationship with his parents. He doesn’t hate them, but he doesn’t appear to believe that they care for him. They’re not around when he is still basically a child in a grown man’s body. He has cut them off in his mind. Maybe they weren’t there for him in the past so he continues to believe they’re not there for him now. Meanwhile, Mrs. Hudson dotes on Sherlock, brings him tea and food and generally ‘takes care’ of him. She’s kind but not a pushover. She’s also led a life that is about as tumultuous as you can get, which I think appeals to Sherlock. He always surrounds himself with people who aren’t “regular” people. Mrs. Hudson holds enough action and adventure in her life that she appeals to Sherlock, and she is also loving and sweet to boot. Mrs. Hudson is the connected parental dot for Sherlock.

Dot 4: Irene Adler 


Irene Adler represents sexuality. What’s even better is that Irene represents fluid sexuality, and more importantly, the rejection of labels. Regardless of how everyone has interpreted this, when you get down to the simplicity of it, it is simply about rejection of boxing one’s self in. Sherlock’s box was his own making, his image as the “higher power” that Irene pointed out. Irene’s own box was her sexuality. Both of these people had discovered during the episode that their boxes weren’t taped shut all the way. There was wiggle room. Back to the sexuality part, Irene awakened Sherlock sexually. The entirety of A Scandal in Belgravia was loaded with sexuality, from Sherlock being naked and looking extraordinarily dashing, to the very naked Irene appearing to completely disrupt his logical thinking power. It’s as close to canon as one can get that Sherlock did sleep with Irene after Karachi (judging by Eurus’s reaction to his violin song for her). Sex and intimacy was something Sherlock had very much refrained from in his life and Irene connected that dot for him.

Dot 5: Molly Hooper 


Molly represents authentic love, or “romantic entanglement” as Sherlock puts it. Everything about Molly and Sherlock’s interaction falls in line with how everyday romantic relationships blossom. They began just like kids, with Molly having a crush and Sherlock being a jerk to her, ignoring her, or thwarting her attempts to date other men. As they grow together, they begin to close the gap between them. Molly earns Sherlock’s complete trust, which was monumentally difficult for her to do considering Sherlock’s fear of connecting with people too closely. Molly loves Sherlock through his best times and his worst times, unconditionally, even though he doesn’t appear to return her feelings. From small things we’re shown, however, it feels as if Sherlock does feel something for Molly, but he has compartmentalized it and buried it as deep as he can underground out of fear. Eurus’s test is what forced Sherlock to dig up that box, that box he’d put his heart in and covered it underneath the earth. Eurus forces that box open, and connects the dot of romantic love for Sherlock.

Dot 6: Mary Watson 


Mary represents, I think, coming to terms with one’s self, and the different shades of the self. She represents acceptance. Mary connected with and accepted Sherlock instantly because they were the same. They both came from dangerous lives, they are both morally gray, and they both have a need to be accepted for who they are, the good and the bad. Mary was in many ways, a reflection of Sherlock’s own duality. I think Mary made him question things about himself (no not sexually), and I think she also taught him how much he is worth as a person. She showed him that even though you are this person you’ve constructed out of your own pain, you don’t have to live just as that person. You can have anything you desire and still be you. You can live with shades of yourself, and those around you who truly love you will accept you as that. They will love you for the good that you are, and forgive you for the bad that you are. Mary connected the dots of acceptance for Sherlock.

Dot 7: Jim Moriarty 


Jim represented fear. He represented who Sherlock would have been, had he not had some form of love and connection in his life. He was a madman, a true sociopath. He showed Sherlock what it really would be like if he was who he said he was. We learn very quickly, however, what Moriarty already knew. Sherlock can never be like him because he does have a huge capacity for love. He’s hidden it, denied it, but it is there. Anywhere Moriarty appeared, it caused great fear in Sherlock. Even after his death, Moriarty was in Sherlock’s mind, chained up in a padded room like a some kind of caged monster. As much as Sherlock tried to be like him, he really feared becoming that. He also feared that Moriarty would be the undoing of his friends and family, forever a threat to their lives. Moriarty was an endless threat to Sherlock, an endless fear of madness and murder. Jim connected the dot of fear, true fear, for Sherlock.

Dot 8: Mycroft Holmes 


I admit this one’s tough. I feel Mycroft represents weakness. For all the power Mycroft wields in the government, he’s very fearful of being out in the world. He keeps people as distant as he can manage and still be a part of functioning society. He also did a terrible thing and locked up his little sister and lied to his family about it because he feared confronting it. All along in the series, we see Mycroft chastise Sherlock for things like having friends, being close to people, tangling with psychopaths, etc. Mycroft is a very soft, fearful person, which makes his nickname The Ice Man sort of ironic. Its not that he doesn’t care, he’s just far too soft to care. We see his softness demonstrated with Sherlock, time and time again. He cares so much for his little brother and fears so much for him that he constantly keeps watch on him. Mycroft also tried to help Sherlock by proxy, using John as a means to help Sherlock heal his wounds. In the end, Sherlock comes to realize his brother isn’t a bad person, and that he loves him deeply. In fact, he loves his little brother enough to die for him so that he won’t be left like he was as a child, without his best friend. I think Mycroft regrets being as weak as he is, because he didn’t do more to help his siblings. It just required too much care, and he wasn’t able to fulfill that. In the end, it is Sherlock who is the stronger of them, and he is stronger because of his connected dots. The last dot is connect by Mycroft, and that is Sherlock understanding that he is capable of protecting the weak, that he is stronger thanks to his mind, heart, and soul now being complete.

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That’s about all. I only included the major characters here, the ones we see almost every episode. I’ve already talked a bit about how Eurus forces Sherlock to confront trauma, so she represents that last little bit which Sherlock needs to connect everything together. She wasn’t a dot, so much as the one who helped him see the entire picture he’d made. Also, Rosie helps Sherlock in her own way, as Sherlock now has this capacity to care for the smallest of people: children. Rosie is a teeny, tiny, adorable dot.

I mostly wrote this because I had wanted to for a while, but also because some people are still arguing about the 'I Love You' scene. They’re missing the forest in favor of the leaves. The bigger picture is pretty clear on what everyone’s purposes were in the show, and how they affected Sherlock as a man. To become a great man, he needed to be a complete man. All these connected dots make him that man.